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Cocktails for a Cause: Shatter the Silence!

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Sexual assault happens. More often than reported. One in three women and one in six men will be the victim of a sexual assault in their lifetime. For a victim, it opens up a whole new world, and not one that would be a chosen road. Sexual assault, besides being a physically violent event or at the very least, extremely invasive, it is embarrassing and hard to deal with. It can, and usually does, affect the rest of your life. It can affect all of the relationships in your life, new and old. It will be hard to trust people anymore. Many people shut out everyone in their life, even their family and loved ones. Unfortunately, many people who are sexually assaulted never seek help in dealing with the emotionally issues that arise from it. Getting help is a great way to actually start dealing with what happened to you. Talk about it – with a friend, a family member, your clergy, or a helpline/center, like the Rape Recovery Center. Talk, talk, talk! It will help you, even if it takes a while. Remember, others who have also been through it can be quite helpful in talking with.

From the Rape Recovery Center website:

What should I do if I am sexually assaulted?
1. Find a safe environment – anywhere away from the attacker. Ask a trusted friend to stay with you for moral support.
2. Know that what happened was not your fault and that now you should do what is best for you.
3. Report the attack to police by calling 911. If you want more information, a crisis counselor on the Rape Recovery Center Crisis Line (801-467-7273) can help you understand the process.

To preserve evidence of the attack, don’t bathe or brush your teeth.

Write down all the details you can recall about the attack and the attacker.

To preserve forensic evidence, ask the hospital to conduct a rape kit exam. Costs for this exam will be covered by Crime Victim Reparations. You can receive this exam whether you choose to involve the criminal justice system or not.

If you suspect you have been drugged, ask that a urine sample be collected. The sample will need to be analyzed later on by a forensic lab.

4. If you know that you will never report, there are some things you should still consider:
Get medical attention. Even with no physical injuries, it is important to determine the risks of STDs and pregnancy.
Call the Rape Recovery Center Crisis Line (801-467-7273) or the National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-4673) for free, confidential counseling, 24 hours a day.

5. Recognize that healing from rape takes time. Give yourself the time you need.

6. Know that it’s never too late to call. Even if the attack happened years ago, the Rape Recovery Center can still help. Many victims do not realize they need help until months or years later.

What should I do if I am a victim of incest?
First, know that this is not your fault. No one deserves to be abused. Get some help. You do not have to handle this on your own.

Tell a trusted adult. If you can’t talk to a parent, can you talk to… A teacher? A school counselor? A friend’s parent? Your doctor?A church leader?

If you do not have any trusted adults in your life, you can also call Child Protective Services (CPS) at the Division of Child and Family Services.

24-Hour Child Abuse Reporting………… (801) 538-4377
24-Hour Toll Free………………………… (800) 678-9399

Your local police department can also help you contact CPS.

Be prepared. Not every adult, even trusted adults, is able to help. You may need to tell more than one person before you find someone who can help.

If you need help thinking through these options, call the Rape Recovery Center Crisis Line (801-467-7273) at any time, 24 hours a day. (Be aware that mandatory reporting laws apply to crisis line workers, if you disclose personal information.)

Know that it’s never too late to call. Even if the incest happened years ago, the Rape Recovery Center can still help. Many victims do not realize they need help until months or years later.

Remember that no one deserves to be abused. Help is available.

Rape Recovery Center

On August 12, 2016, Cocktails for a Cause is holding a fundraiser for the Rape Recovery Center in Salt Lake City. If you are in the area, please come out! There will be drinks, fun people, music, items for sale and a raffle. All proceeds will be going to the RRC. It will be at the Redwood Lounge 502 S. Redwood Rd. SLC, UT. If you are not here but want to donate, email me and I will be able to help you out there.

Pervert Alley: Brock Turner sexually assaulted an unconscious woman and ONLY got 6 months in JAIL; His father thinks it is too much – but it is way too lenient!!!!

BrockTurner mug
Brock Turner – convicted sex offender

This is unbelievable! His father is upset over his sentence, saying it is too much and has shattered Brock. The victim? Never mentioned, but I can tell you that her emotional scars and battle will last a lifetime. It has totally shattered her. Dan Brock also said it was too harsh “for 20 minutes of action”. I CANNOT believe that someone could abase a victim and the crime in such a way as he did right there. He also is upset that poor Brock has to register as the sex offender that he is for life.

Okay, I realize that Brock is his son, but has Dan Turner ever thought about the victim of a sexual assault? What if the victim was his wife, daughter, sister or mother? Would he have such a flippant attitude about sex crimes? If he thinks that a crime should be valued at the amount of time it takes, boy does he have some low morals. Murder can take 1 minute if someone is shot in the head or heart. By Dan Turner’s standards, why should he go to prison for life for 1 minute of action? I certainly hope he rethinks his position on these things.

What Dan Turner obviously does not realize is that his son Brock GOT OFF EASY, with just a slap on the wrist. He faced 10 years in prison, which is exactly what he should have been sentenced to. Brock Turner SHOULD be sitting in that state prison right now, learning exactly how it feels to be the victim of sexual assault. I personally believe that there is a good chance he will reoffend.

Brock Turner should have plenty of time to assess himself and his life and the damage he has caused. Mind you, he has never admitted to his crime or even expressed any kind of remorse. This does not help the victim, either. He was convicted of these crimes. He was caught in the act. There is no doubt of his guilt. There is only doubt as to his moral character (I don’t believe he has one). It also saddens me to see so much sympathy for Brock Turner and his future, which seemed so full of promise. But the victim of his assault had a life to live as well. Now, hers is turned upside down. Maybe she will recover, maybe not. More often than not, they keep at least part of it with them for the rest of their lives. According to the National Women’s Study, this is what has been found with the victims:

3 times more likely to suffer from a major depressive disorder.
4 times more likely than a “non-victim” to contemplate suicide and 13 times more likely to attempt suicide.
6 times more likely to suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
13 times more likely to abuse alcohol and 26 times more likely to abuse drugs to numb the emotional pain.

The Turners need to remember that for the victim of Brock’s “20 minutes of action”, the victim will have a lifetime of consequences. The offender should also have consequences, and not easy ones. Prison should be mandatory, along with lifelong sex offender registry. Please remember: no means no, no matter when it is said (does not matter if you were kissing for 10 minutes and then the person says no-STOP) and an unconscious or impaired person cannot give consent.

In conclusion, Dan Turner should be grateful that his son got such a light sentence that slaps the face of the victim. I think both Dan and Brock Turner might learn more if they volunteered some time at their local rape recovery center or rape crisis center. Maybe if they learn some compassion and empathy for victims, they may have a new outlook on this heinous, violent crime.

The victim’s impact statement: Stanford sex-assault victim: ‘You took away my worth’

At the bottom of the post is a letter to Brock by a sexual assault survivor. Read it. It is fabulous.

Former Stanford swimmer accused of raping unconscious woman on campus
Trial begins in Stanford sex-assault case
Woman testifies in Brock Turner trial
Brock Turner found guilty on three felony counts
The Stanford Rapist’s Father Offers An Impossibly Offensive Defense Of His Son
News Release from District Attorney’s Office
Sentence for ex-Stanford swimmer convicted of sex assault decried as lenient
Brock Turner sentenced to six months in county jail, three years probation
Brock Turner’s Friend Blames His Felony Conviction on Political Correctness
Ex-Stanford student convicted of rape reportedly lied to judge about alcohol use
Sympathy and blame: Responding to rape (a great opinion piece about sympathy going to the aggressors of sex crimes)
Brock Turner, sex assault convict, registers as sex offender in Ohio

survivor letter

Monsters Among Us: Ming Sen Shiue beat to death 8-year-old Jason Wilkman after he witnessed the abduction of Mary Stauffer and her daughter Beth

Shiue victims

Jason Wilkman, 6 [5/16/1980]
Mary Stauffer, [5/16/1980]
Beth Stauffer, 8 [5/16/1980]

Stalking Mary
Search for young boy
Kidnapping laid to bad grade 15 years ago
Murder defendant stabs witness in court (part 1)
How defendant smuggled knife in court leaves officials baffled (part 2)
Defendant cuts witness as she testified at trial
Man accused of holding teacher for 7 weeks
Judge: No freedom for Shiue
Court denies appeal by Anoka County killer, rapist
Murderpedia: Ming Sen Shiue
Wikipedia: Ming Sen Shiue

Stalking Mary

Your Worst Nightmare: High School Revenge
20/20: Mind Games


Ming Sen Shiue

Register Number: 00499-041
Age: 65
Race: Asian
Sex: Male
Located at: Marion USP
Release Date: LIFE

Monsters Among Us: Ex-Marine Jorge Torrez strangled Navy Petty Officer Amanda Jean Snell to death; Sentenced to death

Amanda Snell
Amanda Jean Snell

Find-A-Grave: Spec Amanda Jean Snell
Ex-Marine linked to girls’ murders charged in death of Navy officer Amanda Snell
Former Marine convicted of first-degree murder in death penalty case
Ex-Marine Guilty of Murder, Could Face Execution
Ex-Marine sentenced to die for female sailor’s slaying
Ex-Marine Sentenced to Die in Sailor’s Slaying
Predator in the Ranks: Inside a Real-Life NCIS Murder Case
‘I know someone set me up’
Convicted killer Torrez pleads not guilty in Zion slayings
Mom on death penalty for Torrez: ‘I only wish I could do it myself’
Jurors convict Zion man in Va. sailor killing, to hear evidence in slayings of 2 girls

Deadline: Crime with Tamron Hall: Capital Predator



OFFENDER NAME: Jorge Avila Torrez
SEX: Male
RACE: White
VADOC RELEASE DATE: Multiple Life Sentences
LOCATION: Detainer Unit

Pervert Alley: Sergio Alvarez, a former police officer, convicted of rape, kidnapping and other sex crimes while on duty; Sentenced to 205-years-to-life in prison

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Sergio Alvarez arrested: Former West Sacramento police officer accused of sexually assaulting women
California officer accused of sexually assaulting 6 women
Wife speaks out about former West Sac cop accused of rape
Attorney says accusations against former West Sac officer are lies
Former Police Officer Given Life In Prison For Raping Women While On Duty
Ex-West Sac police officer found guilty of rape, kidnapping
Former West Sac cop sentenced 205 years; rape victim reacts


Sergio Alvarez

CDCR#: AT1427
Age: 39
Admission Date: 04/11/2014
Current Location: Ironwood
Ironwood State Prison
19005 Wiley’s Well Road
Blythe, CA 92225
(760) 921-3000

Deadly Duo: John Duffy and David Mulcahy *The Railway Killers*

Duffy and Mulcahy victims

Alison Day, 19 [12/29/1985]
Maartje Tamboezer, 15 [4/17/1986]
Anne Locke, 29 [5/18/1986]

Killer tells how friend revelled in sex murders
Killer says friend ‘felt godlike after murder’
Murder victims’ fate ‘revealed
They were like two bodies with one brain, raping and killing for kicks
Three life sentences for ‘Thriller killer’
Serial Killers Podcast: John Duffy
Biography: John Duffy
Murderpedia: John Francis Duffy
Murderpedia: David Mulcahy
Wikipedia: John Duffy and David Mulcahy
Fury as notorious sex killer is given £500 compensation after prison bosses damaged a parcel which was sent by him

Witness of Truth: The Railway Murders
Twisted: Railway Killers

Duffy and Mulcahy
John Duffy and David Mulcahy

Pervert Alley: Andrew Luster *The Fugitive Heir*

Andrew Luster

No More Delays for Rape Suspect
Witness Tells of Rapes, Spiked Drink
Jurors Told Defendant in Rape Case Fled
Max Factor Heir Guilty of Rapes
Supreme Court Denies Rapist’s Appeals Bid
Convicted rapist Andrew Luster’s 124-year sentence vacated
Max Factor heir’s rape sentence reduced from 124 years to 50
Andrew Luster gets shorter sentence, chance at parole in rape case
Wikipedia: Andrew Luster

Note from blog owner
Please remember that the women who were sexually assaulted by Andrew Luster are the real victims here. Andrew Luster is NOT the victim. I will not approve comments that vilify the victims or glorify Andrew Luster.

A Date with Darkness: The Trial and Capture of Andrew Luster
Vanity Fair Confidential: The Fugitive Heir


Anrew Luster

CDCR: T97187
Age: 51
Admission Date: 06/19/2003
Current Location: Mule Creek
4001 Highway 104
Ione, CA 95640
(209) 274-4911

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