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As a personal friend of Tejay I know he wasn’t suicidal. I also don’t think he could have hung himself while that drunk. If they don’t re -open his case I will be disappointed. — sad in Kansas.
Meagan,
I believe that Tejay was too drunk to hang himself. I just don’t think someone with that BAL could coordinate things to do it. I do hope they reopen the case.
I am very sorry for your loss. Take care. Bonnie
I am Marc’s Aunt and Marc was NOT suicidal either. My heart hurts for Tejay’s family but hopefully an investigation will open for his death as it has for Marc’s. I hope Amy gets what she so richly deserves – the death penalty or life in prison with no chance of parole. Marc was such a sweet, caring and happy young man and my heart aches that he died this way,
There is a pain that we feel that not many people can understand. I went through college with Amy and tejay, spent nights at their apartment the godmother of my children lived with Amy for years we were all extremely integrated into each others lives. I cannot wrap my head around the facts that have come to light recently. I feel horrid sadness for you and your loved ones but I am grateful that this could possibly lead to some closure. For my husband it was like loosing a brother, from pre school thru college and then to have a black widow come between them forever is hard to comprehend. I would very much like to maintain communication with you and be kept up to date on developments and then just to talk when things get bad. I would welcome a friend in this strange world.
Meagan – I would be happy to keep you in the loop. Are you on Facebook? I keep every news story, blog (including this one) and anything I can find updated on my FB page – If you would like to be a friend on Facebook, let me know and I will send you my name. I have listed many news stories, many of which Bonnie has here, and others.
Marc has so many friends and my oldest daughter is only 6 months younger than Marc and they grew up together playing Barbies, holidays, family gatherings, playing games, hanging out and things like that. Sometimes I feel physically ill thinking of the horrible things she has done to the friends and families of both of these young men, yet she seems to continue on her merry way with no consequences. I hope that changes and that she can never kill another young man and put another family and friends through the grief and heartache that she has caused.
I keep in touch with the wives of Marc’s friends and every single one of them tell me what a great friend and person he was. I already knew that as he has been a part of our lives since his birth.
Also, I will be updating this as much as I can. Anyone in the loop can post in the comments and I will get it done
Thank you! You can keep up with her case here: http://www.metrocourt.state.nm.us/casemanagement/
Case # is CR1980512, dob 03011980 and of course, her name. She has a One Million Dollar bond and she has bonded out with a $100,000.00 property bond which I presume had to be someone other than her. Both of Marc’s homes were in HIS name only.
I am on facebook under the name Meagan Grieve, my address is Russell Kansas please feel free to add me anytime. I’m almost 100 percent sure that her parents posted bond with land/property that they have here in kansas. they are the only people that i can think of that would help her at this point.
I will send you a friend request. We have grandkids in Topeka and just drove through Russell on the way home from visiting on Sunday. We stopped to eat at the A & W in Russell! If I would have known before, I would have called and said Hello!
Wow! What a small world, I live two blocks from A&W!
I can’t find you……..I sent a message to someone with your name but there was no other information and I found one in Fort Hays, KS. Try sending me one Nancy Wyman in Pine, CO.
I tried to look you up too! i couldn’t find you! maybe you can find me through my college, NCKTC in Hays. if not then you can e mail me directly at grieve2012@gmail.com i get my e mail straight to my cell phone.
I have a feeling that Amy’s parents put up their land here in Kansas as bond. 100,000 is only 10 percent of her actual bail, it’s a million dollars but they only had to front 10 percent.
I sent you an email Meagan – in case it goes to your Spam folder.
GREAT NEWS! The Grand Jury took a FULL 4 minutes to indict Amy on Open Murder and carries a sentence of 30 years to life!!!!! Next step is her arraignment where they advise her of the charges and she enters a plea of Guilty or Not Guilty! Let’s keep our fingers crossed and then maybe APD can look into Tejay’s case!
Thank you for the update Nancy! That is great news. The road to justice has begun!
Nancy, I did not know this, this is great news! Tejay’s family deserves justice too and I hope that they can reopen that case and charge her with his murder as well!
Hi Staci – I’m glad you found this place! I did want to add that Open Murder means “deliberate and with intent.” Oh and carries a sentence of 30 years to life!!!
My friend is going out with amy. im serous. i already warmed him. shes manipulating his mind!!!
Does he know that when she tires of him, she will kill him? Does he know her black widow history? She is a sociopath – read the book, The Sociopath Next Door – you will see what I mean.
Tell your friend to run away as fast as he can! I cannot stress it enough. I. Wont be today, tomorrow, or even next yeah but as soon as she thinks people have forgotten…. she WILL strike again.