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I am way behind on approving comments and posting lately. I am sorry, but that will not change anytime soon. I was not going to mention it, but I got an email ripping me apart for not approving comments quicker. I got hit by a car last week, so I am not up to much of anything right now. I am not dead (just wish it at times!). I am just very sore and cranky. So, I have approved comments that are easy to read and get through, but if your comment is long and long-winded, it will be a while, if ever. I will stand by my comment policy also during this time. If you are going to talk negative about a victim, just don’t. I won’t approve it. I have seen lots of those lately. There is no reason to bash the victim when that victim cannot speak for himself/herself. Yes, I realize that not all victims are perfect. Some led horrible lives. Some were mean to people. But when they have been murdered, there is no reason to speak about it now. Not here anyway. From the comments I have seen, if I were murdered, everyone could have a field day with my life. But how would that make my loved ones feel? I would not want my daughter to see those kinds of comments. So, I will stand by this. No one is perfect, victim or perpetrator. But here, don’t speak negatively about the victim. That is not too much to ask. If you want to bash a victim, I am sure there are plenty of places to go or start your own blog.