Brianna Denison
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There’s an e-mail going around. The murderer of poor Bri had a shaved groin, a very specific and telling rapist and murderer characteristic. Two kinds of men have shaved groins. Some gay men, a drag-queen, do. Gay men are not interested in sex with a female, let alone rape then murder of a female. The second kind is a male cross-dresser/transvestite. An analysis of Bri’s murderer reveals the following profile:
1) Probably closeted male cross-dresser/transvestite,
His male personality very concerned/obsessed with,
2) Probably white professional heterosexual male with a graduate degree in music or law as statistics reveal these professions attract male cross-dresser/transvestite to due to their “drama-queen” characteristics,
3) A “drama-queen” subconsciously seeking to be exposed as any publicity/attention is better than no publicity/attention due to its increasingly addictive “rush” for him,
4) Probably in late 50’s early 60’s, looks younger, normally clean-shaven,
5) Probably was or is in academia, due to access to vulnerable females;
a) Probably was teaching somewhere in grades 5-12 due to ages of females in those grades, and now part-time in public or private academia; grades 5-12, community college or university,
b) Probably had affair with school secretary(s),
6) Probably 5’6” to 5’9” tall, wears ½” to ¾” heel loafers, big-boned, husky,
7) Probably has been living a secret double life since he was 12 or 13 years old,
a) Probably only lives part-time in Reno area for several years due to having a compulsive long-term secret double-life elsewhere within easy driving distance of Reno,
b) Probably has another compulsive long-term life, secret from Reno life, in the San Francisco Bay Area,
a) His keeping up an appearance of propriety,
b) His keeping control,
c) Keeping his secret a secret,
9) Married and divorced 2 or 3 times due to his compulsive secret double life and the inevitable outings of his secret,
a) Married using at least once, or more than once, California’s Confidential Marriage Certificate,
10) Has an escalating history of violence to females,
a) Probably started with passive aggressive violence to, and emotional manipulation of, wives and female students,
b) Probably escalating to throwing things, breaking things, to “accidents” with subsequent injuries to wives,
i) Probably record of wives injuries in local hospitals/doctors and local police departments; Reno Area and San Francisco Bay Area,
c) Probably increasing complaints of professional misconduct,
i) Probably record of in school records and public court records,
d) Probably multiple divorces from same wife,
i) Probably record of in public court records,
e) Probably a bigamist; see Linda Chernus, University of Cincinnati clinical psychology professor, bigamist research. “They need to control women, to keep secrets and keep autonomy so no one knows what’s going on inside of them. They have a sense of invincibility, that they can get away with this. They think they can get away with anything.”
11) Has uncontrollable fetishes,
a) Probably leather,
b) Probably rubber,
c) Probably vinyl,
d) Probably bondage,
i) May have been seen in San Francisco bondage clubs,
e) Has shopped for years in person at Reno Area and San Francisco Bay Area fetish stores,
f) Has made fetish purchase for years via mail and later Internet using checking account and/or credit card,
12) Has a collection of fetish photos of females in leather, rubber, vinyl, and bondage,
13) Murdered Bri for several reasons,
a) To elude his mechanisms of repression,
i) Probably has repressed Bri’s murder,
ii) Probably has repressed his 30 to 40 year history of increasing violence to females,
(1) Probably turns/turned his violence around such that he claims/claimed the females are the violent ones against him,
b) To keep his secret a secret,
i) As he’s learned females in his life inevitably discover his secret,
c) Because he projects his repressed female side onto females that in reality are not what he has projected them to be.
i) He is attracted to a female allowing him to experiences his anima, projecting onto females he imagines they display what he is ashamed to let himself express.
(1) He goes after a female or has a female in his life wear the high/fetish heels he craves to wear.
(2) He goes after a female or has a female in his life wear the female/fetish clothes he craves to wear.
(3) If she doesn’t wear the female/fetish attire he craves to wear, his expectations are not met therefor his subsequent and escalating punishment of the females who fail to live up to his compulsive expectations.
d) Over several years, his punishment of females inevitably escalates into murder of a female,
14) Always blames a female,
15) Always creates the drama he blames the females for,
16) Probably
a) Narcissistic,
b) Obsessive-compulsive, and
c) Has mental disorders of Peter Pan Syndrome, Personality Disorder, Inversion, Escapism, Short-man Syndrome, and
d) Two Personalities as his male personality views his female personality as separate,
i) Given his female personality a separate and female name.
ii) His female persona views other females as competition enough to murder them,
iii) His female and male personas are repelled by his male cross-dressing personality, resulting in his self-hatred,
e) Autogynephile; see J. Michael Bailey, Northwestern University psychology professor studies and Donald Laub, MD, and psychiatrist Donald Fisk’s Stanford University School of Medicine transvestite studies,
17) Has engaged in risky behavior since teenager,
18) Probable hobby: Ballroom dance, due to access to vulnerable females and its abundance of mirrors, both requirements for cross-dressers/transvestites,
a) Probably known at Reno area and San Francisco Bay Area ballroom dances,
i) Dance characteristic: he gets off watching himself in the mirrors surrounding the dance floor,
19) Probably Democrat,
20) Does NOT attend any cross-dressing support groups,
21) Sees/saw mother as emasculating/emasculated his father who he idolizes/idolized,
a) Blames mother for his perceived shortness,
22) Probably lives very cheap in an area of high affluence to bolster his low self-esteem,
a) Hides his cheap lifestyle pretending to be much higher up economically,
i) Probably living on a boat, in a trailer, RV or manufactured home, or an in-law unit,
ii) Home characteristic: mirrors as he gets off watching himself cross-dressed in mirrors, floor,
If you have any information or even a suspicion, please contact the Reno Police, Washoe County Secret Witness, or San Francisco Police. Thank you.
Teaching is a profession that tends to attract sexual predators. Personality disorders such as cross-dressing, leather, vinyl, rubber, bondage fetishes, are characterized by rigid and on-going patterns of thought and action fixed fantasies. The inflexibility and pervasiveness of these behavioral patterns often cause serious personal and social difficulties, as well as a general impairment of functioning. Personality disorders are defined by the American Psychiatric Association as “an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the culture of the individual who exhibits it”. These patterns, as noted, are inflexible and pervasive across many situations, due in large part to the fact that such behavior is perceived to be appropriate by that individual.
Transvestic fetishism is defined by as one of the paraphilias, a group of mental disorders characterized by obsession with unusual sexual practices or with sexual activity involving nonconsenting or inappropriate partners such as children. The essential feature of transvestic fetishism is recurrent intense sexual urges and sexually arousing fantasies involving dressing in clothing associated with members of the opposite sex. Another term for transvestic fetishism is cross-dressing. Transvestic fetishism is considered a sexual deviation. For transvestites stimuli associated with cross-dressing is just about always necessary for erotic arousal and are always included in sexual activity, if not actually acted out alone or with a partner. It is important to note that this activity is closely associated with achieving sexual gratification.
Persons with transvestic fetishes should not be assumed to be homosexual. According to DSM-IV-TR, most men who practice cross-dressing are basically heterosexual in their orientation. Some, however, have occasional sexual encounters with other men. Cross-dressers often choose to hide this part of themselves and sometimes internalize a sense of shame and guilt as psychiatrists and society still consider cross-dressing to be pathological.
Persons with transvestic fetishism rarely seek psychotherapy on their own account. In rare instances, the patient has agreed to consult a psychiatrist only because his wife or girlfriend is distressed by the cross-dressing. Most persons who have a transvestic fetish never seek treatment from professionals.
The prognosis for treatment of transvestic fetishism is poor, as most persons with this disorder do not desire to change. Most cases in which treatment was demanded by a spouse as a condition of continuing in a marriage have not been successful. By the way, it was German physician Magnus Hirschfeld who coined the term “transvestism” (Latin for “cross-dressing”) in 1910. Hirschfeld was himself a cross-dresser. Cross-dressing is a fetish, along with the rubber, vinyl, leather, bondage. A cross-dresser can’t get excited without cross-dressing or pretending he is cross-dressed or with the woman on top while he pretends to be the woman. That’s when therapists describe it as a fetish. A fetish is an eroticised object whose use is crucial to a person’s sexual function as it provides psychological stimulation. Cross-dressing is only one of many fetishes. When both people in a couple are interested in the same thing – she likes to be on top, he likes the bottom, he’s ecstatic when she wears vinyl, the issue of narrow erotic interests doesn’t seem like a problem. It’s when one person gets bored with the routine, or never liked it in the first place, that couples have difficulty. Many women originally start out trying to please his fetishes because she doesn’t realize what they are, fetishes. She thinks eventually they’ll get to a more normal relationship not realizing that will never happen.
A true fetish – a long-term, rigid requirement, or more than one – doesn’t change. Then he acts out with a variety of partners usually women desperate for a husband and young girls he can coerce due to his position in their lives, like as their teacher.
Most cross-dressers have Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) as NPD is a defense against shame. It is defined as a mental illness primarily characterized by extreme focus on oneself, and is a maladaptive, rigid, and persistent condition that may cause significant distress and functional impairment. There is a preoccupation with fantasies. They believe that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by other special people. They have a strong sense of entitlement to the point they will take advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends.
They lack empathy and are arrogant to hide that they are easily hurt, oversensitive, ashamed and over react hiding that hides in a generic state of shame obsessed with neutralising devaluation by seeing other, usually their spouses and employers as unjust abusers. As a coping strategy, the cross-dresser avoids sharing “shameful” thoughts and feelings with partners and significant others due to fear of rejection so they behave in a critical or superior way toward others. Most cross-dressers are also The Peter-Pan psychological type characterized by immaturity or certain sorts of psychological, social, and sexual problems. The type of personality in question, usually male, is immature and narcissistic. The characteristics of include irresponsibility towards ones’ spouse, rebelliousness against ones’ spouse, pottering about, anger, narcissism, manipulativeness, and the belief that he is beyond society’s laws and norms. It is the adult little boy who, when in a relationship or in seeking a relationship, acts out a need for mothering. It is useful to compare the Jungian archetype of Puer Aeternus, the eternal boy.
Cross-dressers also often have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): “a pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image and affects, as well as marked impulsivity, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts.” It is marked by frantic efforts by the cross-dresser to avoid real or imagined abandonment including repeatedly divorcing their spouse. Cross-dressers have patterns of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation due to their persistently unstable cross-dresser identity disturbance. There is Impulsivity like promiscuous sex, eating disorders, binge eating, or reckles driving. There is recurrent self-mutilating behavior. There is inappropriate anger often acted out in passive aggressive. It has been noted that there is probably no other mental disorder about which so many articles and books have been written, yet about which so little is known based on empirical research. Studies suggest that individuals with BPD tend to experience frequent, strong and long-lasting states of aversive tension, often triggered by perceived rejection, being alone, or perceived failure. Individuals with BPD may show lability (changeability) between anger and anxiety or between depression and anxiety and temperamental sensitivity to emotive stimuli. The negative emotional states particularly associated with BPD have been grouped into four categories: extreme feelings in general; feelings of destructiveness or self-destructiveness; feelings of fragmentation or lack of identity; and feelings of victimization. Individuals with BPD are very sensitive to the way others treat them, overreacting strongly to perceived criticism or hurtfulness. Their feelings about others often shift within minutes from positive to negative, generally after a what others look at as a minor disappointment or perceived threat of losing someone. Self-image can also change rapidly from extremely positive to extremely negative. Impulsive behaviors are common, including unsafe sex and recklessness in general. Attachment studies suggest individuals with BPD, while being high in intimacy- or novelty-seeking, can be hyper-alert to signs of rejection or not being valued and tend towards insecure, ambivalent, preoccupied or fearful attitudes towards relationships. They tend to view the world generally as dangerous and malevolent, and themselves as powerless, vulnerable, unacceptable and unsure in self-identity. Individuals with BPD are often described, including by some mental health professionals (and in the DSM-IV), as deliberately manipulative.
That is correct that cross-dressers are not harmless. Schools, are notorious for these men with secrets resulting in their living double lives. Probably why these men choose to live and work his adult life there. Unfortunately the statistics do bear out that domestic violence from the man is a characteristic of all male cross-dressers marriages or relationships who fail to immediately disclose their secrets. Once outed, all these men turn it on its head and claim it’s the wife (female) who is the abuser, the mentally unstable one.
Those secrets, deception, manipulativeness, selfishness, playing the victim, deceit, narcissism, arrogance, control, and drama, are all characteristics of all cross-dressers. The more closeted they are, which usually happens as they age, the deeper and darker the characteristics. The retired San Francisco attorney in the article, who mentioned he’s on his fifth marriage, and his fifth wife, like the previous four, didn’t know he was a cross-dresser when she married him. That is abuse. A marriage doomed. Larry-Lauren’s comment about his marriage unraveling due to his secret he kept from his wife, his cross-dressing. That is abuse. Another marriage doomed. Both these men mention they go to cross-dressing support groups. That is not enough. So the abuser goes to listen to other abusers who all agree that abusing is ok. All the cross-dressed men who over the years I saw come into the B& D Clubs are now being dragged into counseling with me by their wives or girlfriends after finding out afterwards about their secrets. Those are absolutely devastating secrets to keep from one’s spouse. Not even one of these outed marriages/relationships has survived his outing as a cross-dresser. Their wives and girlfriends feel too betrayed by his secrets leaving a grievous level of hurt permanently scarring the women. The only marriages/relationships I’ve seen survive with a cross-dresser is when the wife/girlfriend knew from moment one of their meeting and was able to openly negotiate their relationship up front. That is what I counsel. Larry Wochowski’s solution is the only workable one for a cross-dresser and I commend him for it. He found a woman, she knew right up front, and he openly lives in a world and constructively contributes to it where he is hurting no one as he lives what he is. That is what mental health is all about. Taking responsibility for what one is and how one interacts with others. By living an all-around healthy life.
Almost a couple million years ago, through evolution, our species and others were hard- wired for certain behaviors. Such as Loving and Being Loved in Return. Such as females of several species are hard wired for seeking Love aka A Provider. Hard-wired means done instinctively. Humans being are one species, Black Tipped Hang Fly, Common Tern, Roadrunner and Preying Mantis being others. These females, as they are the ones for getting pregnant for propagation of the species, seek a male who will after sex, provide for them and their presumed offspring from the sex act. That providing includes lifetime food, shelter, protection and always being there for her. That is why women insist on marriage and take his marriage vows so seriously.
The male is hard-wired for offering dinner dates. In Anatomy of Love, anthropologist Helen Fisher describes the offering of food as the “universal feature of wooing.” The male Black Tipped Hang Fly plies the female with a feast of aphids, daddy longlegs and flies. “The common male Tern often brings a fish to his beloved. The male Roadrunner presents a little lizard.” Today’s woman is still getting this Love aka Get A Provider directive from her genes. Does not matter if she is a staunch feminist, earns more than $100,000 a year, or has no plans for children. She has to eat off his plate. For that reason the “joke” that woman are “What is mine is mine and what is his is also mine.” That is why birthday, anniversary and holiday presents from him to her, and a lot of them, are so vitally important to her. So is public handholding. Sleeping so close, they’re wrapped together. Sitting next to each other at a table rather than across each other after he has seated her. Him writing her love-letters. He opening her car door. Him wearing her wedding ring. Him publicly kissing her hello and good-bye with the resulting transference of some of her lipstick to him. Him having flowers delivered to her office. All that and so much more is part of her two million-year-old hard-wiring.
Women instinctively want a Provider who will always be there for her. Literally, symbolically and figuratively. As I’ve written before, I specialize in men who cross-dress and the women who fall in love with them before they know about his fetish. From the viewpoint of the hard wiring of the woman, a male cross-dresser is a sheep in wolf clothing. After the woman finds out about his cross-dressing, that trauma leaves a massive psychic scar as it attacked almost 2 million years of her hard wiring. From the viewpoint of the hard wiring of the woman, her provider who divorces her less than 30 days after their marriage, then goes on to divorce her four more times, has violated her to the core of her being. That is why the vast majority of women have a nervous breakdown after they find out about their provider’s infidelities. Or when he has her served with divorce papers. Or when she finds out he is a cross-dresser. Her hard wiring interprets all of these as that he is not there for her. That he broke his Provider Promise or Violated His Marriage Vows. The nervous breakdown ranges from mild to serious. The wife/girlfriend has dragged both of them in after her discovery of his cross-dressing. He’s always still in denial after his outing. Self-centeredness and selfishness are cross-dresser characteristics. Therefore, cross-dressers are Masters at Appearances/Deception with years of experience Hiding Their Secret. The older the cross-dresser is that I see, the more likelihood of his having a Double Life. From the viewpoint of psychology, he is often a Serial Abuser. His behavior is often Domestic Violence.
A cross-dresser lives with a secret. Their secret, their fetish, or menu of fetishes, are compulsive needs. A cross-dresser is heterosexual. A male closeted cross-dresser’s sex life with an adult female is usually brief and mutually unfulfilling to the cross-dresser and his female partner due to his secret. Often times he is even impotent as the male cross-dresser gains more sexual satisfaction from being cross-dressed and masturbating in front of a mirror as the cross-dresser is chained to his fetish. A cross-dresser who simultaneously expresses his fetish and sex with a female child or vulnerable female gains fulfillment. Intercourse with a female child or vulnerable female while cross-dressed gives him more sexual satisfaction than his masturbating cross-dressed in front of a mirror. That leads me to a disturbing hypothesis of why many child abusers kill the girl. Is it in order to keep his cross-dressing secret? The comments about how San Francisco, a town known for tolerance, is not tolerant of cross-dressers, but is of drag queens, who are homosexual, were telling. The conjecture is that a cross-dresser is more concerned with keeping his cross-dressing secret than the discovery of his sex with a child. He is unconcerned about the discovery of his sexual act as it proves he is a man who is able to perform. The discovery of his cross-dressing though brings into doubt his masculinity. The hard wiring is absolutely correct for men and women.
The lies are to protect his secret, his cross-dressing, and a secret his attorneys most likely share. If my hypothesis is correct, that makes him, potentially, a very dangerous man. Like the child abuser who kills the child, both are unconcerned about their sexual act. Both are proud of themselves as a man who was able to perform. It is their secret that they will do anything to protect. For that reason, serial abuse and domestic violence and murder is done to protect the secret that he is a cross-dresser.
By: craig on March 20, 2008
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